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Adhi KSP wrote :

.................. Pada awalnya, ketika saya mengajak teman-teman agar aktif menulis di blog, saya pernah di-omeli, “huh dasar narsis!”. Tetapi saya ingin sampaikan kepada Anda bahwa saya merupakan satu dari lebih dari 200 juta blogger di dunia yang “narsis”. Menurut BBC, dalam satu detik, lahir satu blog baru di seluruh dunia............... (September 2008)

May you love as long as you live and live as long as you love. Robert Heinlein.

I really liked it. Even the music was good. (When asked if he liked the opera one evening.)Yogi Berra

Breasts ... errrr... boobs ...

Arisaja wrote :

Hope this post will not be banned according to newly passed Pornography Act. Intrigued by treespotter to write something about boobs err breasts, so here is my piece.
Why Men Interested in Boobs?
Breasts probably the first erotic experience for men (and women too), the first thing they would encounter as soon as they open their eyes to the world. That is if you were breastfeed. But as human grows, men interest to breasts is differ from women. Men think of boobs as part of women sexual appeal - regardless of size, but sometime size does matter. Let us men admit, when you met a girl what is the first thing you will notice after you put a glance on her face?
I would say boobs, why? Because they are spot on, especially women in tight shirt. Probably one of the obvious reason why men are fascinated about boobs, simply because men didn’t have them. We have nippled chest, not boobs. While women have a pair of them, so what’s the big deal?
It was way back, in my adolescence when I had my first boobs experience. That is paying attention to girl’s boobs as part of their sexual appeal. I still remember in the time of my junior high, one of the girls in my class has a pair of boobs that significantly different in size with other girls. While other’s probably still wearing minisets or A cup bra, she’s probably using C cup (Do I sound like a pervert?). Well, what can I say, it was the transitional period from a child to a man. And part of it was attraction to opposite sex. And boobs are sexually appealing.
What size are you?
As I grow into a more mature, preference to what size of boobs that I like better formed. When come to size, I think most men would say the bustier the better. I personally prefer in the correct proportion. The size that just right. I do admit, bustier boobs make women more noticeable, easier to be spot on. But when they get to much and become disproportional with the body curvature, I don’t like it as much.
I don’t really know how women feel about their body, particularly their breasts. Some women just happy for what they are, but some feel dissatisfied on their appearance. Women with dissatisfaction tried many ways to get what they want it for their body (and breasts). Undergo plastic surgery for example, having silicone implanted to make it look better in a way, sexier, sexually more appealing and such. But is that the only thing that interests men? Well, if you are trying to become a pornstar, that’ll do. But to attract men, it takes more than just a pair of boobs.
Brighter side of Boobs
As I mentioned before, that breasts are the first encounter of newly born human to sexuality. But breasts serve a noble purpose in life. They are means of nurturing the infants. Breastfeeding, probably the best for baby’s growth and development. First drop of mother’s milk will give the baby immunity. Mother’s milk also contain more nutrient than any type of formula that essentials for the babies. Women that breastfeed have lesser risk of breast cancer, which to women they consider their worst nightmare.
Breast are gift, both to women and men, especially women. That’s why, women should pay more attention taking care their breasts instead of having bustier or bigger breasts. Healthy breasts are good for the baby, and keeps the father happy.
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PS : It’s hard to keep the writing decent and not sound perverted. Not having a taste of boobs for quite sometime now, this is what I came up with in such a sort notice. Wish I can do more of observati

Boo .... !!

aku sedang lari pagi di halaman komplek. ada seorang anak muda keluar dari salah satu rumah yang kulewati. tuit-tuit,bunyi alarmnya, lalu ia membuka pintu mobil, menghidupkan mesin dan diam di mobil beberapa saat untuk memanaskannya. tampaknya belum mandi, pakai baju ga terlalu rapi, mungkin mo olah raga. walau ga ada keliatan bawa peralatan dan perlengkapannya. bisa jadi sudah tersedia di bagasi mobilnya. tennis ? atau renang. atau ke gym. atau golf. atau mancing. karena orang baru(3 bulan masih termasuk kriteria baru bukan, he he …) maka aku ga tau siapa dia.kami juga tidak berusaha untuk bertegur sapa. tapi yang menyengatku bukan itu. seorang bunda tergopoh di belakangnya. berhenti di depan pintu rumah (rumah di komplek kami ga berpagar). memandang penuh cinta. dan berteriak “jangan nyetir sambil sms ya sayang”. anak muda itu menatap tanpa ekspresi, kemudian berlalu dengan mobilnya. wanita paruh baya itu pun menghilang di balik pintu rumah. aku membayangkan diriku sekitar sepuluh tahun ke depan. Boo.. !! Halloween sudah lewat, tapi tiba2 aku merasa dikagetin dan ditakutin oleh kejadian barusan. aku berbelok kerumah, membangunkan fara dan anggas untuk naik sepeda bareng. jelas, ada temali yang harus aku cicil simpulnya sejak sekarang…

What matters most ?

Aku suka heran. Denger cerita2 tentang para istri yang melakukan apa pun untuk kebahagiaan suami. Minum jamu, les pijat, mempelajari pose baru, spa vagina, bahkan operasi pemulihan selaput dara. Ga pede, menurutku. Atau aku yang terlalu culun ?

Yup, benar seks adalah salah satu parameter kebahagiaan per'kawin'an. Di aku juga weight-nya cukup 'dahsyat'. Tapi menurutku kebahagiaan bukan sekedar itu. Apa nilai seorang wanita kalau hanya itu yang mereka andalkan ? Semua akan hilang tergerus waktu. Tapi menjadi lawan debat yang mengasikkan, nyambung kalo diajak ngobrol, selalu punya ide2 segar yang breaking through, semuanya adalah sex appeal yang more worthy dan akan merembet ke hal2 lain. Something on the way you talk, you think, you write… akan membuat you got something too on the way you smile, you laugh, you stare, you walk, you move, you shoot ('night shoot', maksudnya, he he …)

Well, semua kembali ke visi dan misi masing2 couple. Dari situ pasti ketahuan akan memaksimalkan value stakeholder yang mana ? What matters most ? Dan bahwa itu beda2, absolutely ! But please deh…. C’mon girls … masak sampe operasi selaput dara sih ? Don’t say that’s the way you’ve been brought up !

have you ever feel lonely ?

Have you ever feel lonely? Kesepian di tengah keramaian, kata Dewa.
Saat itu aku merasa, anak-anak adalah harta terbesarku … honey, bunny, sweety, crunchy, you both are the greatest sweetest thing of my life…

I, Robot

Terkadang ada yg terasa hilang dalam hidup ini. Pinjem istilah Tamara Geraldine , setiap kita punya 2 tangki : Tangki R(omantisme) dan Tangki S(ex). Kalo gw bilang, ada satu tangki tambahan yaitu Tangki T(alking) …..

Pernikahan, pekerjaan, rutinitas, tak jarang menjadikan kita robot. Bagi yang beruntung maka dia masih memiliki ketiga tangkinya secara utuh. Dan pomnya tidak pernah kekurangan pasokan untuk mengisi penuh setiap dia butuh. Robot yang lain, mungkin tidak mampu mengisi lengkap ketiga tangkinya, bahkan ada yang harus ke bengkel untuk melepas satu, dua, atau seluruh tangki-tangkinya secara permanent, supaya ga jadi penyakit karena lack of supply.

Buatku, menyadari bahwa ada saat2 di mana salah satu tangkiku kosong adalah sebuah musibah kecil … krn ketika aku sudah terlanjur sadar, aku ga bisa lagi berpura2 tidak mengingatnya (fyuh, inginnya bisa mengalami amnesia retrograde), berpura2 tidak sadar, berpura2 no problemo, akhirnya bermuara pada pertanyaan : Mampukah aku kembali ke kehidupanku yang dulu ? Yang boring kayak mewarnai gambar dengan 12 pensil warna aja? Yang santun kayak nyanyiin lagu wajib di sekolah dasar ? Yang standar kayak bacain Pancasila diikuti seluruh peserta upacara ? Yang datar kayak pemandangan sepanjang jalan Bangkok-Pattaya? Sementara.….Aku masih ingin menggambar dengan campuran cat air ngejreng2 .. Aku masih pgn nyanyi slowrock walau nadaku sering ga nyampe … Aku suka ‘posisi aneh’ biar malamku berwarna (he he ..tenane ..) … aku mimpi lakukan perjalanan seru kayak Indiana Jones … Egois banget !!

Hmmm… hidup memang sering tak masuk akal … namun kalo aku datang ke Lost n Found dan melaporkan : “ Mr. God, I lost one of my tank” Mungkin aku akan dapet jawaban : “Found : 2 anak kecil lucu, satunya stubborn dan sok teu, satunya endut dengan hati lembut” That’s it ! Tangki yang 'sat nggereng' adalah kondisi temporer (I hope :)).. Tapi anak2 … mereka selalu ada, dan jadi alasan utk bangun dan merayakan hidup setiap harinya. And that’s what I call Lost n Found …

Praying is like a rocking chair - it'll give you something to do, but it won't get you anywhere.Gypsy Rose Lee

Heavy rains remind me of challenges in life. Never ask for lighter rain, just a better umbrella. Good day, enjoy life!

Youth is when you're allowed to stay up late on New Year's Eve. Middle age is when you're forced to.

An optimist stays up until midnight to see the New Year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves.

People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas.

about marriage ...

Marriage is not a ritual or an end. It is a long, intricate,intimate dance together and nothing matters more than your own sense of balance and your choice of partner.

You know you are in love when you see the world in her eyes,and her eyes everywhere in the world.

To the world you may be one person,but to one person you may be the world.

met ultah pa...

19.02.08
Dearest Papa,
Uncountable thanks
4 the greatest love you gave us
4 always put us on the first place instead of everything else on earth
4 incredible concerning, thinking, fighting with all your pain, blood and tear
4 being 24 hours a day and 7 days a week reliable defender
4 doubling our joys and dividing aour sorrows
4 everything we shared : the dreams, the laughter and the tears
We love you with a very very special love, that deepens every year
Happy birthday !

Yudhi, Fara , Anggas

Rumah Cinta

istriku, perjalanan terjauhku darimu adalah
selaksa syair rasaku untuk selalu menjumpaimu
setiap jarak dan selisih waktu adalah rindu
rentang engkau dan aku tak pernah terbilang waktu

setiap lelaki akan berjalan sangat jauh, sayang
tetapi engkau membuat aku selalu ingin pulang
sebab jiwamu adalah haribaan kelembutan
dan warna hidupmu menyebarkan kesegaran

ijinkan aku menyentuhnya sepanjang usia
sebagai tanda aku senantiasa hasrat untuk setia.

Passage of Time and Purity

Seven years has passed,
And only seven minutes between that…
That we really spoke our minds in person…
For five years that to be happen,
Yet, we never regret that…
We might never…
Talks…
Laugh…
Smile…
Or do like other normal friend do…
And they said eye is the window to the soul?
And minds boggles wandering…
Distances may far…
Life may differ…
We might be stuff of the old tale,
You be the unicorn…
And I’m just the hopeless peasant happens…
Caught a glance of you gaze at me,
And forever trapped in infinite night…
Dreaming the forbidden dream,
Chasing the Unicorn…
We might never have another five years waiting,
We might never know what this will be…
We might never care about this when the sun rise the next day,
But, please allow me…
I am honored to be your friend,
I admire you for being a friend,
Even when I am not perfect,
Even then,
Even when,
You are you…
Never cease to amaze me
Yet the truth is,
The fact that,
Even for a friend,
Even if you don’t care,
You never wanted me to be someone that I can never be…
That I cherish most about you…
And if only,
God himself allows us to meet once again,
Unlike the last time,
In time when we are we,
Not now or were,
Then I promise myself to tell you the moral of this writing,
Until then…
(by AlphaDorK)

taipei, 2007

my masterpiece, 2004

halloween 2007